Deliberately Defy Relational Drift
Thoughtfully crafted. Artfully designed. Dynamically unique.
A simple tool for creative, productive dialogue
Casually brought on a date and placed on the table, the craftsman leather pouch, tactilely thick cards, and thoughtfully worded questions invite you and your partner into a playfully engaged conversation that deepens your connection.
Conversation Cards for Couples - 48 question cards - 4 categories
Road Trips. Date nights.
Conversation Cards for PARENTS - 48 questions cards - 2 categories
More about Conversation Cards for COUPLES
So often, when couples actually have time to really talk, time is easily spent reporting the latest details of the calendar and chatting about work, in-laws, or kids.
What was once an energetic relationship could end up feeling more like conversational numbness.
We passionately created a tool to bring back relational closeness through deeper, more real conversations. Pursuing a deeper knowing of your spouse will feel purposeful and will lead to growth, development, and maturity.
Each deck includes FOUR categories:
Rather than "one time" questions, Defy Drift cards are categorized to stimulate up-to-date creative, productive dialogue:
- PLAY- easy "what if" questions that stem playful, creative big picture dialogue that stirs new ideas
- CONNECT- emotionally curious dialogue about what is most relevant to each of you in life right now
- PURSUE- questions to encourage you to discuss the quality of romance and intimacy in your relationship.
- VISION- these are forward-focused questions to create a new sense of intentionality around values, goals, and big decisions.
More about Conversation Cards for PARENTS
This card deck includes TWO categories:
COLLABORATE - used between MOM and DAD to better understand each other's parenting practices and deepen the commitment to parenting together
SHAPE - used between PARENT and CHILD to deepen understanding of child's point of view and gain influence through understanding and wisdom
About Us
Our Team
Marriage Leadership Vacations
The SouthCity Group
Todd and Beverly Sandel
Todd is the founder of The SouthCity Group and a licensed marriage and family therapist. Together, we are passionate about helping couples defy the natural drift that happens and recapture the thrill of being together.
The SouthCity Group
Marriage Leadership Vacations
The SouthCity Group
We are an executive coaching and leadership architect firm built to help leaders galvanize greatness in themselves, their teams, and their organizations.
Marriage Leadership Vacations
Marriage Leadership Vacations
Marriage Leadership Vacations
We bring leaders and their spouses to bucket-list destinations and intentionally blend physical fitness, novelty adventure, and marriage leadership principles. Please contact beverly@defydrift.com for more details on how to sign up.